The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson Manhattan Beach Family Law Attorney | Divorce Lawyer Los Angeles 2026-05-28T13:45:27Z https://www.simpsonlaw.net/feed/atom/ WordPress /wp-content/uploads/sites/1402659/2022/03/cropped-KFS-site-icon-32x32.jpg On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[How long do I have to pay spousal support in California?]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48397 2026-05-28T13:45:27Z 2026-05-28T13:45:27Z Determining the duration of support The length of your marriage is the starting point for any spousal support discussion in California. If your marriage lasted fewer than 10 years, the general expectation is that support will last roughly half the length of the marriage. However, a judge has full discretion to order more or less, depending on the circumstances. For marriages of 10 years or more, California law treats the union as long duration. This means there is no automatic cutoff date for support payments. The obligation often continues until a judge orders otherwise, or until you and your former spouse agree in writing to end it

Weighing assets and the marital lifestyle

For long-term support, California judges do not use a fixed formula. Instead, they weigh a range of factors to determine what is fair based on the standard of living you and your spouse maintained during the marriage. In high-asset divorces, the court will look closely at your separate property, deferred compensation, stock options and overall ability to pay — balanced against your spouse's actual financial needs. One important development: under Senate Bill 711, spousal support orders made on or after January 1, 2026 are no longer tax-deductible at the state level. This shift can significantly affect how much support actually costs you.

Identifying grounds for termination or modification

Spousal support rarely lasts forever, even after a long marriage. Several situations can end or reduce your obligation:
  • Remarriage: If your former spouse remarries, support ends automatically.
  • Death: Support terminates if either party passes away, unless you have agreed otherwise in writing.
  • Change in financial situation: A significant change in your financial situation, such as retirement or an involuntary income reduction, can be grounds for modifying or ending support.
  • Failure to become self-sufficient: If your former spouse fails to make reasonable efforts toward financial independence after being warned by the court, a judge may reduce or terminate support.
In most cases, a formal court order is required before any support changes take effect.

Getting the right legal guidance

Spousal support calculations in high-asset divorces involve multiple overlapping factors that rarely produce a straightforward answer. Working with a family law attorney who understands the financial complexity of your situation can help you approach negotiations with a clearer picture of your obligations and your options.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[2 tips for handling property division in California]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48395 2026-05-26T17:18:36Z 2026-05-26T17:18:36Z Throughout a marriage, spouses may acquire assets that they enjoy. In many cases, these include high-ticket items and some with emotional attachment. Those items can become the subject of a highly contentious property division process if they decide to end their marriage.  There’s no easy way to divide property because each case is unique. California is a community property state, so all assets and debts that were acquired during the marriage will have to be divided equally. There are limited exceptions to this, such as gifts and inheritances that were given to one spouse. 

1. Be realistic about your expectations

One of the most important things to remember as you go through the property division is to be realistic about what you can afford to keep. Some assets have considerable upkeep expenses, so you should determine if your new budget as a single person will be able to accommodate those expenses. 

2. Remove emotion from the equation 

Some assets, such as the marital home, may be filled with memories. While those may be intense, don’t allow your emotions to sway your decision about property division. You have to think about what’s best for your finances now and into the future. It can be hard to walk away from an asset you feel connected to, but it may be more difficult to have to live in a constant state of stress about how you’ll pay for it.  Even if a property agreement is reached, the court will still have to approve the agreement. Until that happens, anything that’s community property is still owned by both parties, regardless of possession. Because the California laws related to property division are so strict and complex, working with someone familiar with these matters may be beneficial as you go through the process. ]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[Effective co-parent communication: 2 tips]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48390 2026-05-13T15:26:33Z 2026-05-13T15:26:33Z Parents who go through a divorce will have to ensure they’re doing what they can to provide consistency for the children. This isn’t always easy because of the emotions that come with ending a relationship, but many parents will find that effective communication reduces the stress and improves the parenting relationship.  Communication with your co-parent might not be easy, so it’s best to have a solid plan for making it as effective as possible. These tips may be a good place to start. 

Keep the children as the central focus

All the discussions between you and your ex should be focused on what’s best for the children. It’s easy to start to talk about the past, but that’s hardly ever productive. As you talk to your ex, be sure that you’re willing to compromise so that the children get what they need. 

Know when it’s time to take a step back

The chance of you and your ex always agreeing on things related to the children is small. When miscommunications or disagreements occur, tempers may start to flare. Knowing when it’s time to take a step back from the discussion is beneficial for both parties. If this is necessary, set a time to meet back up and finish the discussion.  Communication standards should be included in the parenting plan because they set the standard for both parents. Other terms and conditions should also be included in the plan. Because these plans are comprehensive and must be based on the child’s needs, it might be beneficial to work with someone familiar with these matters to ensure everything is set up properly.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[What no one will tell you about gray divorce]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48387 2026-04-30T22:20:03Z 2026-04-30T22:20:03Z gray divorce concern that often goes unspoken is how deeply identity and daily structure may be affected when a decades-long marriage ends later in life. After many years together, routines are shared and often indivisible. From social circles to holiday traditions to how time is spent each day, much of life has been built jointly. When that structure suddenly changes, the question is not just “What do I get in the divorce?” but “What does my life actually look like now?” This shift can be disorienting in ways that younger couples may not experience as strongly.

Why divorce is often different for older couples than younger ones

Adult children, extended family and even mutual friends may also struggle to adjust. People who have been part of a divorcing spouse’s life for decades may not know how to engage moving forward, and social networks can change in unexpected ways. These shifts can influence decisions during the divorce process, especially if one party feels pressure to preserve certain connections. There is also the reality of timing. At this stage of life, there is often less perceived time to “start over,” which can lead to decisions driven by urgency rather than long-term planning. Some individuals may prioritize stability over fairness or avoid pursuing certain assets or support simply to move on quickly. Others may underestimate how long they will need financial resources to last. Gray divorce also raises questions about independence that may not have been relevant for years. Managing finances alone, making major decisions independently and redefining personal goals can all feel unfamiliar. These challenges can influence how settlements are approached and what outcomes truly serve each person’s future. Approaching gray divorce with awareness of these less obvious dynamics can lead to more thoughtful decisions. It is not just about dividing the past, but about shaping what comes next in a way that supports both stability and independence moving forward.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[Custody disputes involving narcissistic or high-conflict parents]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48384 2026-04-09T17:22:28Z 2026-04-09T17:22:28Z Child custody disputes are often stressful for everyone involved. But when one parent displays narcissistic traits or thrives on drama, the situation can become especially challenging. Repeated disagreements, poor communication and ongoing tension can affect both parents and children. If you’re dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, it can be helpful to know how courts view these situations and what factors may influence the outcome.

Conflict and its impact on children

A high-conflict custody case typically involves parents who are unable to communicate or cooperate regarding decisions about their child. One parent may try to control every aspect of the child’s life and refuse to compromise. Every situation becomes a dispute. The term “narcissist” is often used to describe individuals who have an excessive need for control, attention and validation. And while the courts don’t base their custody decisions on personality labels alone, they will focus on behaviors and how those behaviors affect the child’s well-being. Children can experience stress, confusion or emotional strain when they are repeatedly exposed to parental conflict. Courts are concerned when one parent:
  • Interferes with the other parent’s scheduled parenting time
  • Refuses to cooperate on important decisions
  • Places the child in the middle of adult disagreements
  • Speaks negatively about the other parent to the child
  • Attempts to undermine the child’s relationship with their other parent
Courts generally believe that children benefit from having meaningful relationships with both parents. However, if one parent actively harms that relationship, the court may consider that behavior when determining custody. When dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, it can be helpful to remain focused on your child’s needs and well-being. Courts often look favorably on parents who demonstrate patience and stability and place their child’s health, safety and welfare above all else. It’s also crucial to work with a legal professional who can help you understand the custody process, present your concerns effectively and work towards an arrangement that protects your child’s best interests.  ]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[Filing first in high-asset divorce: Does it help?]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48382 2026-03-24T15:03:51Z 2026-03-25T15:00:07Z What filing first does for you Filing for divorce starts the legal process and sets key terms in motion. It can establish where the case moves forward, which may matter if you or your spouse have ties to different states. When you file first, you also present an initial outline of issues such as high-asset property division, custody and support. While this does not decide the outcome, it can guide early discussions and expectations.

Potential advantages of filing first

In some situations, filing first offers practical benefits. It gives you control over timing, which can help if you have already organized your financial records. You may also request temporary court orders that address custody, support or use of shared property. Filing can trigger deadlines for exchanging financial information and requesting temporary orders. This can move discussions forward instead of letting them stall.

Key timing considerations in high-asset divorce

Timing decisions in high-asset divorce often depend on several financial factors:
  • Business interests and valuation timing
  • Stock options, bonuses or deferred compensation
  • Real estate holdings and current market conditions
  • Tax implications connected to the date of separation
Each of these elements can shape how parties evaluate and divide assets as the case moves forward.

When filing first may not change the outcome

Filing first does not guarantee a strategic advantage. If you lack complete or accurate financial information, timing alone may not change much. In high-asset cases, early filing may heighten conflict around your financial issues without changing how those assets are ultimately evaluated or divided.

Focusing on readiness, not speed

A central question is whether you feel prepared for the process. This includes organizing financial information and understanding your shared assets. Filing first can influence the pace and structure of a case. Still, thoughtful timing and preparation tend to play a more meaningful role in how high-asset divorce matters move forward.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[Can your spouse claim part of the business you founded?]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48380 2026-03-23T15:16:47Z 2026-03-23T15:16:47Z When you built your business from the ground up, the thought of losing part of it during a divorce can feel wrong. In California, how courts handle business ownership depends on when the business started and the contributions made during marriage. Understanding the basics can give you clarity and perspective.

When the business existed before marriage

If you started your business before you got married, California may consider it separate property. That means your spouse may not automatically have a claim to it. However, you must show whether the business grew because of both spouses' efforts or because of the business itself. For example, if marital funds helped the business expand or if your spouse contributed labor or time, the increased value could be considered community property. You can challenge this if you show it came from separate property or earned returns without your work. Keeping detailed records of investments and contributions can make it easier to understand your business’s status in a divorce.

When the business started during the marriage

Businesses founded while you are married are usually community property. Even if you are the sole founder and operator, California law presumes you and your spouse each own a 50% community property interest. How you structured the business, how you used funds and whether both spouses helped can affect ownership. Prenuptial agreements or other contracts can affect the outcome, but California courts review each case carefully.

How courts handle business division

Courts in California focus on fairness when dividing business interests. They consider your contributions and the overall value of the business. Common factors include:
  • Valuation of the business, including assets, goodwill and growth potential
  • Contributions from each spouse, both monetary and labor
  • Options to buy out one spouse or structure a settlement that protects the business
Courts aim to balance financial fairness while avoiding unnecessary disruption to the business. They often look for solutions that let the business continue running successfully.

Protecting your business during and after divorce

Knowing how California law treats your business can reduce uncertainty. Clear records and awareness of marital contributions also help you see where your business stands. You can approach divorce with a realistic view of what may be divided and how it may affect your business. Preparing for this possibility allows you to focus on both your company and your future without unnecessary worry.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[How do California courts divide stock options in a divorce?]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48378 2026-03-19T06:57:33Z 2026-03-19T06:57:33Z Stock options are a common form of pay in Southern California, especially for workers in aerospace, tech and executive roles. If you or your spouse received stock options during your marriage, those benefits may count as marital property. Knowing how courts handle them can help you prepare for what comes next.

Community property basics

California follows community property rules. This means most assets earned during the marriage belong to both spouses equally. Stock options granted during the marriage create a community interest, but the specific portion that qualifies as community property depends on how much of the vesting period fell within the marriage. The key question is when the options were earned, not when you can cash them in.

Vested versus unvested options

Vested stock options give you the right to buy shares now. Unvested options require you to stay with your employer for a set period before you can use them. California courts can divide both types. For unvested options, judges may defer distribution until the options vest and split the community share at that time. Courts can also use an immediate offset, where the employee spouse buys out the other's interest based on a present-day valuation.

Time rule formulas

Courts use time rule formulas to figure out how much of a stock option grant counts as community property. Two common methods are the Hug formula and the Nelson formula. The Hug formula applies when the options rewarded past service and measures from the date of hire to the date of separation. The Nelson formula applies when the options were meant to keep the employee at the company and measures from the date of the grant to the date of separation. Couples going through a high-asset divorce often work with financial experts to apply these calculations correctly.

Why this matters in high-asset cases

For couples with significant stock holdings, a small error in valuation or timing can mean a large loss. Market swings, tax effects and vesting schedules all play a role. As of 2026, California also allows couples to file a joint petition for dissolution, which provides a non-adversarial path for resolving complex property divisions. Getting a clear picture of what exists and what it may be worth helps both spouses reach a fair result.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[5 facts about high-asset property division in divorce]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48376 2026-02-26T19:14:48Z 2026-02-26T19:14:48Z Divorce can be financially complex, especially when substantial wealth is involved. High asset divorces often include multiple properties, business interests, investments and retirement accounts that require careful evaluation. When significant assets are at stake, the division process becomes more detailed and sometimes more contentious. Understanding key principles of high-asset property division in divorce can help protect your financial future and reduce costly mistakes.

1. Marital and separate property are treated differently

One of the first issues in a high asset divorce is determining which assets are marital property and which are separate property. Marital property generally includes assets acquired during the marriage, while separate property may include assets owned before marriage or received through inheritance.

2. Full financial disclosure is essential

Transparency is critical in any divorce involving significant wealth. Both parties are typically required to disclose all assets, liabilities, and income sources. This may include bank accounts, real estate holdings, stock portfolios, business interests and valuable personal property. Hidden assets can lead to serious legal consequences and may alter the final distribution.

3. Business valuations require careful analysis

If one or both spouses own a business, determining its value is often one of the most complex aspects of property division. Valuation may involve reviewing financial statements, projected earnings and market conditions. The outcome can significantly affect how other marital assets are divided.

4. Tax consequences can impact the final outcome

Dividing high-value assets is not just about who receives what. It is also important to consider potential tax implications. Transfers of property, liquidation of investments or distribution of retirement accounts may carry tax consequences that reduce the true value of the award. Having a strategic plan helps avoid unexpected financial burdens.

5. Privacy concerns may arise in high-profile cases

Individuals with significant wealth or public visibility may wish to limit public exposure of financial details and in some cases, courts may allow certain documents to remain confidential.  Seeking experienced legal guidance ensures that your rights are protected while navigating complex property division issues.]]> On Behalf of The Law Offices of Keith F. Simpson <![CDATA[Often overlooked things to include in a parenting plan]]> https://www.simpsonlaw.net/?p=48374 2026-02-11T09:08:31Z 2026-02-11T09:08:31Z Parents who are divorcing have to work together to determine how they’re going to raise their children. This is done through the parenting plan, which includes a variety of topics and guidelines for them to follow.  While parents usually consider a lot of the major decisions that will have to be made, there’s a chance that they may forget about some of the smaller ones that can have a major impact on the situation. The issue with overlooking these is that they can lead to misunderstandings that can escalate quickly. 

Communication

One commonly overlooked topic is parental communication. The parenting plan should outline how parents will share information with each other. Some topics to plan for include school events, extracurricular activities, and medical care. As part of the clarification, response times and methods of communication should be specified. 

Transportation

Even if parents live close to one another, they should still specify how transportation will be handled. This can include who is responsible for pickups and drop-offs, where child exchanges will take place and how delays will be handled. 

Unexpected financial details

While many parents think about child support and health insurance, there are other financial matters to consider. These can include the cost of the child’s extracurricular activities, school supplies, or uninsured medical expenses. Knowing the plan for these items can save hassle in the future.  Each parenting plan should be set up based on the child’s best interests, which is sometimes a central debate between the parents. Working with someone who can assist with exploring the options and help determine how to set up the parenting plan may be beneficial. ]]>